[Outfit Deets: Blouse: Everly, purchased at Fedora Boutique | Skirt: JCrew (old, similar) | Cobalt Wedges: Target | Necklaces: c/o Stella & Dot, Laura Jane | Watch: Target | Sunnies: Target | Cross bracelet: InPink | Bangles: JCrew (similar)]
You guys, I’m trying to do a better job of slowing down lately. Taking time to shut off my computer, shut off my phone, not look at Twitter, or not fulfill my innate desire to immediately post every life moment on Instagram.
We’ve been talking a lot about the word RHYTHM in my life group recently. Finding rhythm with ourselves, rhythm with our spouses, rhythm in our jobs, and ultimately, rhythm in Christ.
Honestly, as much as I try, I feel like I’m having a hard time putting it all into practice. Right now, I’m in Indianapolis for work, I’m leaving for Kenya soon, I’ll be traveling a lot for work in the next few months, and truth is, I’m having to say no, way more often than I can say yes. That is tough for me. I’m a people-pleaser by nature.
But I’m trying. I’m praying. I’m getting better. Or something.
I guess you could say I’m constantly… under construction.
see what I did there?
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“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” – Jeremiah 29:11
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Ahh! This is right on time….because clearly I need to slow down myself-social media has done a great job distracting me from every other important thing I must do in life!!!
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I freaking love those wedges. Have I said that before?
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haha yes! love it!!: ) thank you so much melaina!
I don’t think we can ever be in rhythm 100% of the time. You should just enjoy all the detours that are coming your way and your rhythm will find you when things all slow down!!!
Btw – loving all your new outfit backdrops and whatnot. Fun!
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amen, jamie!! and thank you so much <3
First off, that is a very cute top.
Also, good luck as you try to balance so much. Life seems like sometimes it just speeds through.
thank you SO much, kristian! and you are SO right.
I SO hear you on trying to cut things off – it’s so hard sometimes! But it’s so, so good when you have those moments when you’re successful at it.
You look gorgeous in this top/skirt combo, btw – love the colors and the fit!
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I really need to do a better job of slowing down! Loving your top, especially the back!
xo,
Angela
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Ha ha, I’ve been under construction too. I’m trying to spend less time in front of the computer as I spend ALL my free time reading blogs right now. I try to only spend a few days a week after work on the computer now instead of every day. I also try to take the weekends off. You look super adorable in this outfit!
xo Jenny
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thank you so much, jenny!! i hope you take some time to unwind this weekend <3
Yes indeed I am under-construction too! Love these sentiments. Love the way you have combined colours in your outfit too and how the back on the blouse crosses over. Thanks for joining in with WW
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amen, miriam!! thank you so much for hosting WW!!
found you blog via marissa (shabby chic cheap) and i love your style! you seem like such a fun person. and i’m also a fan of the cowboy boots! i have quite a few pair myself and wear them a lot. just followed, and looking forward to future posts!
Morgan
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aw thank you SO MUCH, morgan! you are so sweet. can’t wait to check your blog out! marissa is a sweetheart.
Love the outfit and the metaphor
Slowing down is SO hard…that has been on my mind a lot lately as I’ve noticed that I’m becoming a bit too obsessed with my blog stats, Facebook, Twitter, Etsy etc. You have a lot going on with all of your travel…hope you can enjoy some quiet time and find the balance you’re wanting. 
thank you so much, mandy! <3
Thanks so much for guest posting today!
I loved that top then I saw the back and fell in love again!! GORGEOUS!
I think we are all under construction all the time, working towards being the best us we can be.
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anytime, marissa!! i had fun!! <3
Great shirt! Very fun. And good luck slowing down!! I hope you’re able to do it….it’s so hard!
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love this look, especially that blouse
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Cute outfit! I thought I’d spotted a Stella & Dot necklace… I’m a stylist for them in the UK. Loving how you’ve got your bangles and watch on the same wrist! x
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thank you so much, alex!! i do love their pieces!
That is such a cute top on you, and I seriously love the watch! I totally agree that it is hard to slow down and step away from the “obligations” we create for ourselves, but I’m trying to do the same!
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Hmmm. Yes, I’m not a working girl yet (college, graduation year) but I too seem to be jumping up and down on a beat I can’t control. I would love to move on the rhythm of a slow romantic song, but there always seems so much that needs to be done: papers, student job, friends, boyfriend, blog, …
Life is going like a high speed train at the moment. Good thing the high speed train through Belgium goes to Paris 
My way of saying that I will find a solution ^^ xo Nikki
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so so so so so SO true, nikki. i love your solution!
I can relate completely…some day my days are so jam packed, they blend into eachother. I’m trying to learn to balance my expectations for myself and my need to please people with time to just relax and enjoy life, but it’s definitely a work in progress. As an aside, you look fantastic in that top–the colors are so lovely!
-Alyssa
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it’s so true – we just have to slow down! thanks, alyssa!
You’re going to Kenya?? That’s incredible. No shame in taking time for yourself
Hope you’re doing enough of that.
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yeah – i am heading back to serve in a village there. <3
Molly, I am always under construction. Life never seems to slow down, especially with two girls running around. I just try and take time for myself and make time for Ross and I. You are doing a great job. You are an inspiration! Both in blogging, fashion and life in general!
xo
Shanna
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oh man i can only imagine. i have two DOGS and i feel like my hands are full. YOU, my sweet friend, are an inspiration <3
I Love this top!!! it’s so fun! and I’m right there with you with the other stuff!
amen, sister <3
Such a great outfit, Molly! Love the print on that top! You always have the best backgrounds for your photos!
Lindsey
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I looove the back of that top, Molly! I too find it hard to unplug from technology especially with this whole blogging thing. I think it’s important to remember to LIVE life because when we’re documenting every little thing with Twitter/Instagram/FB etc we’re not really living it.
-Sharon
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thank you so much, sharon! and so true – we just have to keep reminding ourselves
You look super cute Molly! Love the bright colors in your top!
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This is so cute! I loved this post. I definitely need to take a lesson in that. I am so addicted to Instagram.
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thank you so much, emily <3
take the time for sure – it’s always great to re-check yourself. LOVE that top Molly!
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Good for you for taking some time to slow down. It’s so important that we turn off distractions so we can really hear what God might be trying to tell us.
I love the colors in this outfit!
Meredith
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I think in order to be good Christians we must constantly be under construction. This past year, I have had to say no more than yes and it has been so hard for me because I, too, am a people pleaser by nature. We just have to understand what pleases Him most and make it top priority. You are doing the right things even if you have to say no sometimes. Love you girl.
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amen, lindsay! so true!
I can totally relate! Sometimes I forget to slow down, and as I’m a people pleaser like you I hate saying no to people or turning them down. PS- this outfit is so beautiful on you. The fit of that skirt is so flattering and the colors are great together.
Stephanie
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Such a pretty outfit Molly! Love that top, the back detail is so fun. Aw, I’m sure you are doing the best you can and sometimes you just can’t please everyone, but that is ok!
xo, Yi-chia
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loving the colors in this outfit and the background! I’ve always wanted to get photos by a train!
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Love that top Molly! And it’s definitely a good thing to slow down sometimes…your life sounds crazy busy right now…so it’s extra important to do that
Annie
The Other Side of Gray
Thanks annie! So true <3
Ooh, gurl! I see what you did there!
Those shoes look awesome. I love bright blue!
Thank you so much, Rebecca!
Cute Outfit!
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love your top!! how fun are the colors!?
xo,
Sandy
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When I saw the title, I was wondering where you were going with that… very clever! What a cool place to shoot. Love the back on this top! And the S&D necklace is so gorgeous!!! ~Sarah
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thank you so much, sarah! hope you’re having a great week, friend!
Hey Molly, I really love your reddish pink skirt with that funky top. The background compliments your outfit really well! Where was this taken?
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thank you so much, sydney! i live in a small town in North Carolina and we have A LOT of railroad tracks and little railroad construction areas, so it was on a set of tracks under repair near my house
I feel like I’m under construction too–I just wish I looked this cute while I was in the trenches
love that patterned top! you positively rock it! hang in there, lady…we’re all works in progress! xoxo {av}
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thank you SO MUCH for your sweet comment, girl. you have no idea how much your encouragement means!